Kids have a highly sensitive detector for adult bullshit. An ability to see through the stuff that we have either consciously decided to tolerate, to go along to get along, or have just been desensitized to.
Case in point: Elizabeth decorated cookies and took them across the street to for our neighbor and our neighbor’s mom, who is visiting. Neighbor wasn’t home, but called as soon as she got there to thank Elizabeth.
Elizabeth, by then, was in the middle of a movie. Wife offered to pause the movie, but Elizabeth didn’t feel like talking on the phone.
“I HATE talking on the phone. Besides, she’s just across the street!”
Oh, sweet girl, sweet, innocent girl. The day will come, way too soon, when:
You will be upstairs in the house and your sister will be downstairs and you will both have phones and you will be texting each other. (This may be more suitable than the current practice of just yelling).
The working world, with all its “efficiencies,” is filthy with the overuse of communications technology. Picking up the phone to call someone three offices away. Emailing someone who is sitting across the room.
Or, and I think this is my favorite: People on a conference call, dialing into a toll-free number, sitting in offices next door to each other.
So you know what, Elizabeth, you WALK ACROSS that street, girl, and accept that “thank you” in person.
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